![]() ![]() It's from an area code in the same metro area as us roughly 45 minutes away. Not only is the number not one I recognize, but it's not from our area code. There are multiple entries where she was texting this person until 1 or 2 in the morning and one day where she texted continuously from 5-7 (I usually get home around 7) and then again from 9 to 11:30. Like, there's literally an entire page of uninterrupted texts (probably 100+) just to/from this number. So I start flipping through the bill and get to my wife's phone and notice one number repeatedly coming up A LOT. With our provider, the bill lists all of the calls and texts you make during the month. I printed the bill, and noticed it was longer than usual (42 pages). So yesterday, I needed to submit my phone bill to my employer for expense purposes - we have bring your own device and my employer reimburses us for a portion of our mobile phone bill as long as we submit the bill. being more guarded of her phone, coming to bed hours after I go to bed, etc. In addition, my wife has been acting a little strange lately, i.e. I'll admit that I've started reading r/relationships a relatively short while ago and, to be honest, I felt like it was making me a little paranoid about infidelity. I have a high stress job that requires me to work a lot. I've never had much reason to doubt my wife in the past and don't snoop on her phone/email etc. Our marriage has been mostly solid with no major issues - no splits, no abuse, no cheating, no dead bedroom, etc. We were high school sweethearts who got married just after college. To give you the backstory, my wife and I have been married for 17 years and have 2 children (16M and 10F). I apologize in advance for the wall of text, but there's a lot here. This is a throwaway account (for reasons which will become obvious). If you are tempted to make an angry reply, use the report button instead.Use your experience to form advice but put yourself in the place of others as well.Be respectful to posters and other commenters.Crossposting content from here to another sub, including your own page.Advocating, suggesting or justifying violence.Do not use the sub to push your personal agenda. ![]() Do not post or request personal information that can be used to trace you.Avoid tangential discussions, focus on helping posters.Do not use uncivil, negatively gendered, ableist, sexist or bigoted language.The update needs to be about the solution. Link to the previous post, which cannot be deleted or removed. Updates -"UPDATE" needs to be in the title.No questions directed at a single gender or group.If you are unhappy here, reddit elsewhere. No general questions, polling or ‘opinion gathering’.Specific, clearly stated questions about your situation.First person posts, not on behalf of others.Sufficient spelling, grammar and formatting to be readable.Include a TL DR! - a brief summary at the end of your post.The full rules for the subreddit can be found on our Wiki, please familiarize yourself with them. Please report comments that you feel are in violation of these guidelines to keep discussions constructive.Īt any time mods may remove or refer posts to other subs as we deem appropriate, and our decisions are final. abuse, jokes, meta arguments, fighting with other posters, pointless tangents), your comments may be removed. This sub is about helping people in need - If you are not providing such help (i.e. She doesn't respect him.This sub is for requests for advice about your relationshipĪny other posts including general questions, opinion-gathering/refereeing questions or venting posts may be removed or referred elsewhere I can't imagine liking someone so little that I spewed venom so frequently that others joined in and then still calling them my partner. How often must she complain and criticize for her friend to be comfortable saying such a thing in a random comment when op wasn't complaining? That's become the basic way they talk about him. Even worse is that it happens so frequently that the friend is perfectly comfortable calling him a dummy. But running your partner down to outsiders is shit behavior. It's really frustrating that he forgot something" and "I told him to bring it home, he couldn't remember something so simple. There's a big difference between saying "I asked my partner to bring home something from the market on his way home. ![]()
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